Been Convicted lately? Well, Don’t push your conviction on me!
Isn’t that how you feel? Come on now, most people, in any “religious” circle, long time “Christian” does not like being told what to do, or not do. Am I right about that, or not?
It all starts during our childhood, and if you want to fool yourself, you can say that decreases as you get older, because, in most cases, it doesn’t get easier. You’ve heard it said, “you can’t teach an old dog new tricks.” Sort of true, isn’t it? I know it is. I’ve always been known to be a patient person, but my experiences have proven differently as I’ve gotten older. I have to be very intentional about my patience levels now days.
What got me thinking about all of this is the holidays. You know, the time of year that makes “everyone” feel good? Well, not really. What tends to happen, is people start getting irritated because of the extreme expectations that loom over us all. Like, pressure over gifts, how many, how costly. Family and friends gather, where do we go and for how long. Church, work and personal parties, school programs, not to mention the scheduled “down time” at home with your family. Whoops! Did I say that?
Can you imagine how many different opinions there are about Halloween? Thanksgiving? Christmas? Not counting the different implications weaved in and out of each?
Anyway, what I’m getting at, is everyone has an opinion. I won’t tell you what some of my friends of old used to say about everyone that has opinions. Truth is, everyone has one.
That is what leads me to this thought about convictions. Usually, most people talk about a conviction as though it is the only one that exists, when in actuality, there are too many to mention.
Discussing convictions causes many conflicts, heightened emotions, and, sometimes, division.
So many who feel convicted in a particular area, feel as though others should follow the same conviction. They are convicted, why are you not? Often times, this is viewed as legalism when in the “religious” arena.
The problem is, that you can have an opinion about every, yes, every area of life. Thus, leaving room for a conviction in every, yes, every area of life.
I saw the Cold Stone Creamery on the Food Channel the other day. They are known for their many, many flavor combinations. After seeing the brief documentary, I looked at their website to confirm just how many different flavor combinations they have. Did you know…”There are over 11 million possible Creations, ranging from the simple, to the quirky, to the sublime. We’ve named a few of our most famous and favorites our “Signature Creations.” But millions of people walk into Cold Stone every day and order up something they’ve invented themselves, which we call “Custom Creations.” We encourage you to try both, but at over 11 million possibilities, you’d better get started!” (http://www.coldstonecreamery.com/icecream/cold_stone_creations.html)I mean, it is someone’s full-time job, coming up with just the signature creations!
Listen to what they said, “We encourage you to try both, but at over 11 million possibilities, you’d better get started!” How different combinations of convictions do you think we can come up with? WAY TOO MANY!
Therefore, in comparison, I think we should be very careful how we live, and what we attempt to push onto to others. The key, I think, is found right here, in 1 Timothy 4:12, 15, 16 which says, “…set an example for the believers in speech, in life, in love, in faith and in purity.” “Watch your life and doctrine closely. Persevere in them, because if you do, you will save both yourself and your hearers.”
I do not see the Scripture telling us to throw convictions on people. But doing the before mentioned is enough of a full-time task as it is. I encourage you to try this method…I believe this is effective.
Enjoy Today’s Journey… It is on purpose!
Mike
